We also talked about how to move forward. Because at the end of the day, moving forward is the thing that NEEDS to happen here. I can't allow myself to continue down this path because I will never heal. And I deserve so much more than this.
While we were talking about this concept of moving forward, I asked him, when you look at all of your male friends who are in happy, healthy, strong marriages, they don't have a me in their life. So how do you justify all of this? You are being unfaithful to your wife by keeping me in your life.
And his response was, we (as in he and I) owe this to each other to figure this out. We obviously have no idea what's going to happen tomorrow or the next day but we do have to confront this to see what truly exists.
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