Wednesday, June 1, 2011

My Feelings...His Feelings

He said that if he starts to feel something, he wants to be able to talk to his wife and tell her and be upfront and honest instead of hiding it and lying.

Which, on paper, sounds like a noble thing to do, but the fact is, what we're doing is already cheating and lying and not being faithful. 

I'm just so confused. 

Because I can't predict the future.  Maybe in a few weeks, I won't have feelings.  Maybe the attraction will dwindle.  Maybe I'll meet someone completely wonderful and fantastic. 

But by saying something like this, does he anticipate having feelings?  We've already established that there are feelings here...on both sides.  So how does this make sense? 

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